My respectable Mother who gave birth to me.

Today's modern woman is independent and capable to lead a self sustained life. To create her own financial security. To support and nurture her entire family.

She has a capacity to lead a respectable life. She has become much calm, gentle and humble with balanced spiritualism and tolerance.

She has become matured and intellectual to create and achieve a noble purpose of life.

She has conquered and is liberated by anger, hatred and frustrations, towards peace, joy and brotherhood, to reform a serene INDIA. I appreciate and express my best wishes.

Two sides of the same coin. Apart from the above fact, the true fact is that there are a few manipulative, wicked, in-matured, self-centered, possessive, women with ego of superiority to showoff.

Women have Greater Power as well as Responsibilities.
There is no doubt women are powerful too. They too have immense intelligence. At the same time it is very important to be constructive, to achieve an humble objective of life. To treat everyone with compassion and brotherhood. To be bold enough to stand strong with the rightful ideas, views and persons. In order to serve the mankind and humanity. It is important to appreciate the good ones and to join hands with them to create a better future. To realize by meditation what is good and what is bad. Many Goddesses like Mata Durga, Mata Sita, Mata Saraswati, Mata Laxmi, etc are very good examples of women who are worshiped only because of their immense contribution to serve the humble purpose of humanity. Thus there is nothing wrong in being powerful as long as good purpose is achieved. It is noted in Constitution of Law and Order that maximum rapes of women are a result of the women's rudeness towards the other male persons. Maximum quarrels and robberies in societies are due to broken families which consists of women who may be responsible to provide moral values to her male spouses. Any miss utilization of power by women with manupulations within her family may lead to serious destructive consequences. Thus it is important for women to realize their duty and responsibilities to create a better society.

I have experienced my mothers nature since my childhood. My mother is very adamant, possessive, dominating, dictating, self centered, mentally unstable(with extreme emotions), orthodox(superstitious), manipulative, opportunist, emotional dramatist, sentimental.

My respectable Mother who gave birth to me. If I was a well settled, rich and wealthy man with a good status in society, then definitely my mother would have stayed with me. She would have been much glad and happy to live in a well furnished house with many servants, who could love her and take care of her health. She is correct on her part, and is also able to achieve it in reality. She would be happy if she would as well have a four wheeler, safe vehicle with a driver to take her out or to attend hospital, for medical needs, in order to take care of her health. If there would be influential and wealthy people around her, irrespective of quality(destructive), giving her respect and dignity. She would be indeed happy making fun of people around, calling them names and laughing at them, cracking jokes with her grand children and enjoying naughty, mischievous kids around, this would not be the correct thing though. Happy to live a tension free life, without any responsibility, to work nor to take care of her family. She would indeed be happy just to play around, just like a kid without any tensions. Unfortunately all these things are not affordable by me. As she is already enjoying all these with her brothers and sisters. She is happily living with them. She has never worked in her life to earn her living nor to feed her family, to achieve her financial security. All her life she has been immune to a stress free life, to sit and eat, without any tensions.

In such a situation, her happiness is acceptable to me. Better for her to be happy where ever she is. Instead of having a tough unhappy life with me. I am very much happy with her decision, may be I do not agree totally, as it is the correct and proper decision to achieve her happiness as well as mine.

I am happy that she is happily living her life of choice. As she is achieving her happiness. may be it is destructive to my eyes, but at the same time she is happy. We are both happy in our own ways.
She strongly believes in being arrogant to control and dictate the power of money and influence. I would never believe in such principles though.

There are several such women who would like their husbands to be terrific, tall and brave, like a rich lion king, who can dictate, be macho, to be wild with terror, to control and fear others. To be carefree with a free mind.

I do not criticize them as well, but would say sorry I am not the one for them. They can find someone else who is similar to them.

Indian Movie Stars (Actors)

India has created many stars, Indian people have given them respect, dignity, security and protection, fame, money and power, and much more. And what did these stars give them back in return. These stars are highly intelligent, well educated, high spirited, they have great strength and energy to influence, heal, cure and send message to huge populations, using media and other communication resources. One of his movies I like a lot is "SWADES". And here is a nice song of optimism and happiness, one of my favorites: (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I-wCZ_MwNG4) He has acted in all different kind of movies which are CONSTRUCTIVE as well as DESTRUCTIVE. I was just wondering what impact it can create on the mindset of the youngsters if he acts in destructive movies, which contain anger, hatred, frustrations, manipulations, crazy behaviors, smoking, alcohol and addictions. Too much of excitement can be destructive. Where in the youngsters may just inherit and copy the same attitude. It can as well be destructive to forget all the moral values, responsibilities, good purpose of life and service to humanity. I realize, it is very important for the stars to stick to some principles while acting or making movies, rather than just making money, or simply making movies which can create some destructive vibrations in youngsters. I feel sorry when youngsters play destructive video games where in they shoot and kill just to feel happy. Or when they listen to rap musics just to forget about their tensions by doing crazy addictions. When these youngsters have crazy looking hairstyle or when they wear crazy clothes. Anyways I am not angry or frustrated but would definitely think intelligently about my countries future, as India is still not a developed country, India is one of the poor countries where a common man working on streets and rural areas very much needs to learn to live a hygienic and psychologically balanced life style. It would be extremely wonderful if these famous super stars would create only those films which would send a clear message to the Indian citizens to improve better life-styles, living standards, hygienic life-styles, show them how to create better economy, manufacturing, build their good character with moral values. Teach them the scientific significance of meditation, to increase strength with non-violence, compassion and brotherhood. I was just wondering how could common poor Indian citizen get benefited with such masala, violent movies. Instead of creating a humble human, they would create a violent villain, which would eventually destroy our mother land to further devastation.